"All people get old, however not all people get wise."
Another Trainer helped me to truly understand that our deepest beliefs, are often more a matter of environment and history than of true learning, self awareness and understanding. Some examples include:
- Why depression era children were so conservative as adults.
- Why Christian children typically become Christian adults.
- Why Taliban children typically become Taliban adults.
- Why Chinese citizens mostly feel that Taiwan is part of China.
- Why abused kids often become abusive adults.
- Why kids raised in Conservative homes see Liberals as wrong.
- Why kids raised in Liberal homes see Conservatives as wrong.
If you disagree with that statement. Imagine yourself as a small child born in these environments and ask yourself if you would have the same ABSOLUTE BELIEFS:
- Born to and raised in an impoverished family in Haiti
- Born to and raised in an incredibly rich and famous family in America
- Born to and raised in a KKK family in the Southern USA
- Born to and raised in a farming family in China
- Born to and raised in a family in Palestine
- Born to and raised in a family in Israel
Now here is the question, are you going to stick with these until you die? Or are you going to seriously ask yourself the following questions:
- What am I missing that the other person or party knows?
- What caused me to feel this strongly about this belief?
- What adjustments should I make in my thinking?
- How do these beliefs and actions resonate with my core principles?
Thoughts?
How full is your cup?
Hidden Bias