So I spent the
weekend trying to get Pro-Lifers on Facebook to answer 2 questions:
- The best solution to prevent these terrible procedures and/or babies being raised poorly is to prevent the unwanted conception in the first place. Any pro-active ideas on how to do this in modern America?
- Once the baby is born, it is important that the child is raised well. Any pro-active ways to ensure that these babies you seek to save are not neglected, abused, hungry, homeless, etc? Especially since many of their mothers are poor and single.
Honest to God, I could not get any of them to discuss these critical topics. All they care is that little blastocyte turns into a fetus and is delivered as a baby. (pretty much no matter what)
Not even seeing the
horrible abuse and neglect ,
Child Poverty by State or the
Child Poverty - National statistics could break free their one track mind.
Now I agree that abortions are bad in many ways, however the Pro Lifer's obsession with only one aspect of a child's life seems very disingenuous to me.
"Hey look !!! We did a wonderful thing by making sure that baby was born to an irresponsible person who is impoverished and could not correctly use birth control!!! Yippee!!! Job done!!!"
I was wondering about philosophies, if a parent chooses to have a child:
- does that child owe the parent something for this gift?
- does the parent owe and become responsible for the child?
I personally believe in #2, so the idea of all these Pro Lifers working to ensure a baby is born... And then disavowing all responsibility for the child's quality of life rubs me very wrong. :-(